thoughts hard to put in words

putting yourself out there in love is a really risky thing . there is a 50-50 % chance that you will get accepted or get rejected. life is like that ... we all go through it once or maybe more in our life. you have two extreme ends of the spectrum of emotion where one side of it weighs of sorrow and rejection and on the other scale is happiness and content & love. no such thing as in "betweeness" in this situation.

on the first scale end , the person would dwell in their sorrows and can't seem to get over the fact that he/she has been rejected. it wears the person in and out. and if there isnt a proper circle of friends around to support, the person will just crumble into the pits. darker side of this out come includes anger , confusion, self- pity, impatience, hopelessness, depprivition and "emoism "....

then there is the other side where the person would be on top of the world, so full of themselves, excited, ecstasy, love, care, joy ...start of a whole new chapter where you have to share your life with that other significant half. go on dates and more gift exchange. there will be those daydreams and sighs thinking about them. loads of message exhange via the wonderful invention of technologies.

guess which pat of the device i ended on after there recent blabbers on my blog ...

take a pick ......

signing off